It is a privilege to ride along with Dale when he has to travel for Steelcase. I love it! We have seen Toronto, Dallas, Huntsville, and much of North Carolina thanks to Steelcase. Dale thought I wouldn’t miss 110 degrees in McAllen, Texas. He visited San Pedro Island without me, bless his heart.
In six years of traveling we also said hello to three granddaughters. Now I could kiss Dale goodbye and go visit the Amblers. Never a dull moment. But I still saw my loved ones pretty often.
It was a huge decision to come to France, mostly because of leaving family. I still don’t know if any friends or family will be able to join us here. But Leann said just the right thing to help me decide. “Go, Mom. I would hate to be the reason you didn’t see Europe when you had the chance.”
We had a hasty lesson in cross cultural training before we came here. The lady asked more personal questions than I expected. (I’m suspicious of psychobabble.) What difference would it really make if she predicts how easily I would get along in France? It was too late to say never mind. Sure, it is challenging, like most worthwhile things. She asked how I felt about leaving such young grandchildren. (Elise did cry very hard and long. I blurted out something about not dying. Then she recovered enough to critique her sister’s copycat sobs.) I think I didn’t share that with the cross cultural trainer, just repeated Leann’s encouragement. She said that was excellent.
I thought I was well-adjusted and headed for a wonderful chance of a lifetime. This person agreed. Then we learned she is “not a religious person.” Though she had my pity, she had no intention of talking about that. I couldn’t explain my expectation of walking right into a vibrant body of believers and feeling/being right at home. I believed I had sisters and brothers in France that I just had not met yet. Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying the trainer is wrong, and I’m not naive about culture shock. But God lessened the shock so much with saints at the English-speaking Trinity International Church of Strasbourg. We’re singing some familiar songs, some new. I must not text Leann during the songs to boast of this. Even Adele Ambler is sound asleep while Dale and I are in church in Strasbourg. Yes, this church will be ours while we’re here.